The commenter Carrie-Anne just told me about the YouTube video channel called Girlfriends TV, which is run by lesbians and is rather light and fluffy and sex-pozzie. They have a video called Would You Date a Lesbian With a Penis? in which they interview a man in drag who is very careful to speak in a womanly voice and hide his man hands while he says some preposterous things about being a “lesbian” with a penis.
For example, he says “I’ve been with women who are bisexual, lesbians who were with men prior, but that isn’t always the case. I’ve been with a few gold-star lesbians as well.”
What?!?! How is it possible that a man has been with a gold-star lesbian? A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never touched dick. Fucking hell, he is so delusional. I’m gonna go ahead and say something really twanzphobic here: a man with a desire to sleep with gold-star lesbians is a gross, rapey asshole who likes to violate women’s boundaries.
As for “lesbians who were with men prior,” I meet this particular criteria. I used to date men but after finding that they never could satisfy me and I never fell in love with them, and also that they were insufferable fucking douchebags, I quit trying. I chose to have a female partner and I always will have a female partner. I would definitely not date this guy. The only thing I can think of that would be worse than being with a man again after discovering I prefer women is being with a delusional man who believes himself to be a woman.
If this man has actually had sex with lesbians who know they aren’t into men, then my heart breaks for those women. They may have been groomed to think that it’s “transphobic” to refuse a tranwoman “lesbian” and accepted a sex act with a person who does not actually fit their sexual orientation. This is abuse.
This video created by lesbians grooms other lesbians into believing they should accept men in their dating pool and in their sex lives. It is absolutely heartbreaking that the lesbian community is doing this to itself. I’m reading about the history of lesbians right now and it has been one long struggle the whole time, where men in positions of power have constantly tried to gas-light lesbians into thinking that their sexual orientation is sick or perverted and that they can only find true happiness with men. This transgenderism crap is more of the same abuse against lesbians.
All lesbians have the right to refuse dick. In fact, so do all women.