MtF transsexual explains what it’s like to have a vagina

Oh good! I was just hoping that a man would explain to me what it’s like to have a vagina! This transwoman got his penis inverted and he helpfully explains here how his inverted penis is almost exactly the same as a vagina. Awesome.

“Twelve months have passed now [after getting SRS] and every day is a new, exciting experience for me, although nothing compares to those first few minutes. So these are twelve things that I’ve learned so far, in my first twelve months with my vagina.”

I really just fucking can’t wait to hear what you have learned about having a vagina, dude!

“1. Looks aren’t everything. I think I watched too much porn when I was younger or I stared up too many dresses of Barbies. Prior to my surgery, if I’d had a choice to design my kitten, I would’ve asked for very-little-to-no definition of my labia. I wouldn’t want any suspicion in a swimsuit that my vagina may be a penis. But vaginas are like snowflakes, okay? None are identical. It would be weird if they were! Some women have more definition than others; some may have a visible clitoris; and with others you may have to do a little more searching. My left labia is puffier than my right and my right labia is a bit darker in my peachy salmon shade. Am I considering labiaplasty? No!! Because she’s cute, she has character, and she’s mine!!”

Okay, I had to go and vomit when I saw the words “my kitten.” Now that I’m back, let’s take a look at this paragraph. Yes, dude, you have definitely watched too much porn. I can see that when I look at your selfies because you have a pornified idea of what women are. And you wish you had designed your “kitten” to look like a pornified vulva without noticeable labia. I was just talking about how labiaplasty is a product of porn and pedophile culture recently—the adult vulva without hair or labia is designed to look like the vulva of a child. I’m an actual adult woman, and I certainly don’t want a Barbie-doll vulva. I’m happy with my labia and hair, thanks. And no one has ever mistaken me for a dude when I’m wearing a swimsuit, because I’m a woman.

Numbers 2 and 3 are both about the joys of orgasm after having genital surgery and I’m not going there. Moving on to number 4:

“4. Commando is the way to go. Before my surgery, on average, I had to spend 20 minutes every morning cutting out strips of duct tape, wrapping my penis in toilet paper, taking that tape, sticking it from my shaft, pulling it all the way up into my ass and repeat. I used to call this joyful routine “tucking.” Oh? My testicles fell out of their inguinal canal? Time to rip the tape off, and start all over! Now when I wake up, after I peak under the covers to confirm that my vagina is still, well, there, I brew coffee, and prance around in nothing but nothing. And it feels so good. When I walk to the store I sometimes put underwear on underneath my dress and sometimes I don’t. But when I don’t, I feel THE BREEZE. Total. Liberation. Thank you, Mother Nature for stopping by and saying “Hey girl!!”

You know, I never prance around naked to celebrate the joy of having another day with my vagina. That sounds like something an autogynephile would do. My vagina is just another part, like my elbow or my ankle, and it’s not that exciting to me that I have one. Sure, if I’m in the middle of sexytimes then it’s lots of fun, but most of the time I don’t think about the fact that it’s there. And I would never go around in a dress with no underwear—I would feel really unsafe.

“5. This isn’t fun and games. This is dedication. I feel like my eyes almost get stuck in the back of my head every time I read a comment online implying that men just get to throw on makeup and hair and be accepted as women in society. They think we’re full time drag queens, having a blast. First of all, let me assure you that we trans women are not transitioning for anyone but ourselves. Yes, it’s nice to walk out my door and be identified as a woman by the public eye, but I had to see that for myself before they could. A typical day for me might consist of shaving not only my face but entire body. That includes my arms, my cute butt, my knuckles, the back of my neck, etc. (Thanks for the genes, Dad!) Then, if it’s due, I Inject myself with estrogen, which is something I will do for the rest of my life and has cost me thousands of dollars just in the last four years. Then, after putting on makeup to conceal any little detail that hints “man,” I head to work. No, I don’t work toward vacations, or to go to the movies on a Friday night with my nonexistent boyfriend. I work towards saving money for my surgeries, for my electrolysis, for my therapy sessions, or for my future surrogacy/adoption fund. I always have a bill to pay, just to feel content with where things are for me in transition. If I really cared about what society thought of me, I would still be a man. This is for me, not you. Don’t flatter yourself, America.”

Well, there are men who throw on makeup and hair and then can legally be considered female. Like this guy who smirked his way into a women’s prison. Not that anyone really believes they are female—they get treated way better than actual females are treated. Oh, god, he called his own butt cute. Hang on while I get the barf bucket again…

Number 6 explains that it’s easier to tell guys that he’s trans. Okay. Moving on:

“7. “Tranny chasers” are real—and gross. Most men are just afraid of transsexuals, because of the social stigma that comes with dating one of us. God forbid he brings me out in daylight and someone calls me a man and them gay, because then they are emasculated. Even though he may find me beautiful and charming, his ego is what’s most fragile and worthy. I do not shame someone for what they like in the bedroom and I get that it’s not just a issue I deal with for being trans but for being a woman — because people do shady stuff in general. Also, shaming trans-attracted men would be internalized transphobia. However, it’s hard when you’re a person who goes through dysphoria only to find out a guy is only attracted to you and your friends primarily for the one thing you hate most about yourself.”

Yes, the reason most men don’t date transsexuals is because of “stigma.” Right. It’s not because they know you’re male and they’re not interested in men. And, duh, of course the men who are attracted to you are attracted to men. *facepalm*

“8. Dilating is not great, but it’s worth it. The only part in my vagina self-care regimen that differs from a natal vagina is that I have to dilate. I like to think of my vagina as an ear piercing. It’s cute. and fun to have things inside but without attention, it can close up! When I first came out of surgery, my body naturally  registered my neo vagina as a wound and, because of that, it wanted to heal and close up. No thank you! The solution is that for 30 minutes, three times a day with a nine inch medical dilator, I would insert and apply pressure to prevent losing vaginal depth. Today, I am down to a dilating only a few times a week, for 30 minutes, and will keep that schedule for the rest of my life. The only bonus it that if I have a sexual companion, 30 minutes of sex counts as 30 minutes of dilation.”

WOW. Yeah, there’s only a slight difference between a vagina and a fuck-hole made out of an inverted penis. The slight difference of having to dilate it for 30 minutes a day or else it will close up. Just a matter of tiny details there. You know, I don’t actually have a vagina self-care regimen—an actual vagina is self-cleaning. Not like an inverted penis, which needs to be washed out or it will develop bacteria, because it’s a fucking surgical wound.

“9.) If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck…A neo vagina, and a natal vagina are basically the same except… They aren’t. The vaginal wall was created from the inverted shaft skin of my penis, leaving the nerve endings intact. I have a sensitive, functioning, clitoris, which was constructed from what used to be the head of the penis. The mucous tissue from the urethral extension in my penis was used to create my labia minora, so from that, I get a little wet, although not nearly as much as an average natal women would. My testicles were trashed. Adios! It feels the same to men and I’m prone to yeast infections and STIs, just like natal women.”

Oh gawd—a neovagina is the same as a vagina except for the fact that it’s a penis. *headdesk* Vaginal walls are not like the skin of a penis—they are made of muscle and they are not smooth. The head of your penis is not a clitoris. Do you know how complicated a clitoris is? First of all, it has twice as many nerve endings as a penis has. You’ll never get 8000 sensory nerve endings no matter what surgery you have on your penis. And it’s not just a little button—it has an entire internal structure that goes around the vagina. For your reference:

“The fact is though, that most of the clitoris is subterranean, consisting of two corpora cavernosa (corpus cavernosum when referring to the structure as a whole), two crura (crus when referring to the structure as a whole), and the clitoral vestibules or bulbs. The glans is connected to the body or shaft of the internal clitoris, which is made up of two corpora cavernosa. When erect, the corpora cavernosa encompass the vagina on either side, as if they were wrapping around it giving it a big hug!”

The surgeons cannot make your penis do any of that, dude.

“10. Periods > Penises. So given the fact that my vagina is 95% aesthetic, periods are something I miss out on in this lifetime. OMG. LADIES I KNOW. I’m “SOooo lucky.” Yes, Having a giant shark chomp on my lower abdomen is something I’m fortunate to not have to wake up to every month, but having a period is nature’s way of reminding you that you can carry life! Being a mother is the biggest dream I have, and as is the case for many women out there, knowing you will never be able to feel life grow inside of you and having that special connection to your child is heartbreaking. I fear my children won’t feel like I’m their mother. I fear that, as babies, I won’t be able to nurture them the same as their birth mother will, because they know I didn’t bring them into this world. So yes, cramps are something I’m happy I don’t have to bare, but I would take it in a instant, if I could bare a child.”

Actually, your “vagina” is 100 % aesthetic. It is certainly not practical, since you have to dilate it for 30 minutes at a time for the rest of your life, and since it is not a birth canal. You poor thing, missing out on periods. And no, you can’t nurture a child the way a woman can. Female mammals produce milk for their young. You are not female.

Does this site have no editors? No one caught the fact that “bear” was misspelled twice?

“11.) But just because I don’t have a uterus doesn’t mean there won’t be a mini-me. Early in my transition, prior to hormone replacement therapy (HRT), my mother took a 14 year old Maddy to a sperm bank. We definitely got side eyes from people wondering why on a earth a mother and her very, very androgynous daughter were there. Well, little did they know that I wasn’t there to rub one out to make an extra buck but because I’d strategically planned a way to have biological children. So yes, I can’t carry a child, but I can still conceive one!! When you start to take testosterone blockers and estrogen, your penis becomes dysfunctional, your penis as well as your testicles shrink up, and your sperm count becomes very little to nonexistent. As you read before, being a mother is a dream of mine, and even though I plan on adoption, I would love the privilege of being able to have a child from my own string of DNA too. So, I went in and did my little thing. When I’m ready, I can find a surrogate mother and try to make that happen If I choose to. I’ve also been very fortunate to have sisters, one of whom has told me numerous times she would love to be an egg donor for my future husband. Seriously! My support system is beyond this world.”

Just when I thought he couldn’t get any creepier, he gives me an image of going with his mom to a sperm bank when he was 14, and his sister carrying his child. Oh gawd. Where’s that barf bucket? And look how proudly he announces his right to choose to use an actual female to carry his baby: “When I’m ready, I can find a surrogate mother and try to make that happen If I choose to.” His choice! It’s always easy for men to find women’s bodies to use for their own purposes. His entitlement and narcissism is nauseating.

“12.)  Having a vagina doesn’t confirm my femininity. I was no less of a woman when I had a penis than I am now with a vagina, and I’m not more of one just because I had surgery. Like I said, not every trans  woman desires to have vaginoplasty. Some don’t mind their penises, some love them and others are ambivalent about them. Surgery isn’t the cure to our trans-ness and it does not confirm that we are “real women.” Gender is so beautiful because it feels different for all of us and if society didn’t police what categorized us as male or female, our gender presentations would be as diverse and fluctuating as everyone is on this planet is already.”

I wish words actually had fixed meanings. No, having a vagina doesn’t confirm anyone’s femininity, because having a vagina doesn’t make you feminine. People with vaginas (women) can be either feminine, androgynous, masculine, or anything else. It turns out that anyone, regardless of their genitals, can wear any style. Also, no, you’re not “more of a woman” now that you’ve had surgery on your penis. You’re not a woman at all, actually. A woman is an actual biological category (adult human female), it’s not just a surgically created identity that anyone can make.

Gender doesn’t feel beautiful to me. My gender role says I should be pretty, submissive to men, shallow and weak, and obsessed with makeup and shoes. I am not interested in that at all. These traits are forced on women everywhere just because we are born female and this is a part of our oppression. Only the privileged can try on the trappings of an oppressed class like they’re an outfit and have fun with them.

By the way, this is what this guy looks like:


I am attracted to women. This guy does not look the least bit appealing. He looks like a narcissistic and shallow man obsessed with his appearance and trying to look like a pornified woman for the male gaze. No thanks.

Do whatever you want with your body, dude, and have fun, but don’t think you know what’s it’s like to be female.


51 thoughts on “MtF transsexual explains what it’s like to have a vagina

  1. He also looks like he has that Tight Skin Problem from having facial cosmetic surgery. But clever move growing the hair real long to cover up one of the male shoulders.

    Also he could nurture a baby. So can any man. Of course he’d actually have to care about how the little baby felt. That might be a bit of a challenge…

    Useful clitoris info. Also the lining of the vagina is mucous membrane. I mean, wha? How do the docs sell that? The shaft of the penis, I have touched those occasionally, are dry. It’s like you go out to buy a cocker spaniel when you come home you have a toaster. You would know the difference.

    And I did not know that in porn they somehow have no labia. When you described that part I was sitting here thinking OK if their vagina is open how do you not see the puppy dog years? (sorry but that’s what I call them. The inner ones.😊) That and the no hair, which I knew about, is so friggin creepy. Yep, I read your post a couple months ago about the pedophile-ly-ness😖 in nominally mainstream porn. Holy crap.

    You know what else this guy is doing though? He’s making it sound easy-peasy. He’s promoting this thing. Seeming frank about what it’s really like but leaving out tons of important stuff. Like stitches and scar tissue up inside you on very tender skin. Like discharge. So he’s effectively trying to get other people to do this too. That is some special additional kind of pathology.

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  2. As a woman who has been subject to all the crap we get for NOT reproducing (including being publicly shamed by an uncle – though at least one of my male cousins spoke up for me and pointed out that he doesn’t have kids, either) it really chaps my hide to see them trying to claim the infertility sadfeelz for their very own. No dude, you are not an infertile woman. You are a dude who will never have to undergo any of the stuff you fetishize. Dude will never have to submit to the indignities of pregnancy, nor the actual physical risks.

    Also, that facial expression? Reminds me of when I was 14 and all my classmates tried to imitate Madonna’s facial expressions in her videos, but only succeeded in looking like they had something caught in their eyes.

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  3. I really feel sorry for this man. He’s so young and he has irrevocably mutilated his body. He will never be anything but a freak. On top of it he is obviously seriously mentally ill. He is no longer in contact with the most basic realities. Like, his body. Very sad. I can only imagine the grief of his family, of people who love him. How horrible.

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  4. This person’s imagination has really run away with him. My first reaction was that he is over-compensating, trying to convince himself. IA that it screams autogynophile, but it’s beyond even that. You write:

    Vaginal walls are not like the skin of a penis—they are made of muscle and they are not smooth. The head of your penis is not a clitoris. Do you know how complicated a clitoris is? First of all, it has twice as many nerve endings as a penis has. You’ll never get 8000 sensory nerve endings no matter what surgery you have on your penis.

    In addition, the surgery itself destroys nerve endings. I read an article somewhere that some people who have these surgeries lose the ability to orgasm at all. I don’t want to know the part you skipped re his sexual experience, but undoubtedly it’s a highly imaginative account. (I guess I’m feeling charitable today. What I mean is, a steaming pile of bullshit. 🙂 )

    Did this guy never ever get laid as a man? Did he never feel either with fingers or dangly bit the inside of a real vagina? It’s completely different tissue and behaves differently than an inside out penis. (Okay, reading further, I see he must have transitioned young and probably never experienced a real vagina.)

    just because I don’t have a uterus doesn’t mean there won’t be a mini-me.

    Holy hell. Charitable me has now left the building. May this fucker’s frozen sperm never function. And may he never trouble any woman with it. And how do these people pass biology class in school? Sperm–>father NOT mother.

    That photo. Total pornified image of “woman.”

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    • I can confirm that surgery destroys nerve endings by a lot. I got a breast reduction done awhile ago. More than 3/4 of the surface of my breast has no feeling. And I just made a connection – cringe if you will. I still sometimes have an itching sensation on skin that can’t feel it even if I scratch. There is simply nothing to be done. Now what happens if these guys get that same sensation?

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      • friendpilgrim, after having freezing done at the dentist I’ve had that sensation where it’s numb but there’s an itch and you scratch it and it doesn’t work because it’s numb. Surreal and horrible. At least for me it’s temporary.

        What a lilith said about orgasms. I don’t see how how any MTF could have an orgasm. Aside from the scar tissue there’s the sensation loss. I like Quixote’s illustration. We have way lower nerve ending density on our shoulders than anywhere else on the body. And there’s a demonstration/game where you take two sharpened pencils and you hold them right right next to each other and you touch the back of your hand and you feel two points and then you touch the back of your shoulder and you only feel one. Feel free to give it a go.

        Then there’s also the question of does this fake clitoris work like a real one. Can stimulating it give someone an orgasm. Maybe it can :: shrug:: But it seems to me it’s an unanswered and legitimate question as to whether having this surgery means never really having sex again. Or say there’s a 50% chance of that. If it’s like that, then re medical ethics these operations should never have been allowed. Even if the transsexualism condition was absolutely real and exactly as described initially.

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        • That is so creepy. If that’s part of this, that it’s all about sex, the doing not the male and the female, and then you can’t really fully do it anymore? That also in the future will be discussed at length in psychology journals. 😖

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    • these ‘instant neovag’s’ are being grossly mis sold by unregulated foreign clinics. its getting ridiculous. they really are nothing like an actual womans vagina.not even to look at..and as well as the nerve endings, they will never have the internal parts of the clitoris, the crura and bulbs, and they will never have female pelvic and vaginal musculature. they have to be douched and dilated every day. they accumulate unspeakable detritus and are not self-cleaning like a vagina is. these surgically created holes have but one purpose, but sizes are limited to how much foreskin you have… not good news for the circumcised or puberty blocked.. whatever happens, its unlikely to be able to fully accommodate an erect penis. this kind of destructive, irreversible surgery on healthy organs horrifies me.


  5. Another creepy autogynephile! It really bothers me that these guys say that they are 100% phenotypic and fully functional women. Nothing could be further from the truth, scientifically. Just amazing about having to “dilate” 3 times per day for 30 min per session. There is just so much wrong here.

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  6. [Um, biologist’s interlude here. Clitoris and penis are embryological homologues, meaning they are derived from the same cells in the embryo and have the same parts. The clitoris does have a *lot* more nerves packed into a much smaller space. So, by analogy, the difference in sensation between the two types of glans is like your fingertips versus the middle of your back, or cornea versus the white of the eyeball.

    The shaft of the clitoris that wraps around the vagina is homologous to the shaft of the penis. The skin on the shaft of the penis is homolous to the inner labia. The skin on the scrotum is homolous to the outer labia. They have more or less equivalent sensitivities.

    There is no male homologue for uterus and vagina. (At least that I remember. This is from basic embryology a while ago and I don’t know of any recent research saying any different.)

    So, the point is that IF you had magical surgical techniques that could rearrange all the tissues without damaging nerves, except for the lack of a real vagina and cervix and associated nerves, you could rearrange the sensitive bits into a female shape with reduced sensitivity. And then, with the new organ culture techniques, you might eventually be able to grow a cervix+vagina for implantation.

    We’re nowhere near being able to do any of this yet, but we’re to the point where it would be theoretically possible.] /end of biology part.

    Of course, just grafting on organs doesn’t turn you, as a person, into somebody else any more than grafting on an extra set of arms would turn you into the Hindu god Shiva.

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  7. I am sure he will have as many “orgasms” as the female porn stars he emulates. Nerve endings don’t matter here, just like the perfectly adequate orgasmic genitals of women have never mattered much in porn.

    Good luck bro. Only dudes gonna get near your transgina are the tranny chasers you complain about.

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  8. Okay, nobody probably wants to read this, and I apologize in advance for what I am about to say but I couldn’t help but wonder what happens to those dudes who “tuck” when they need to shit. Do they shit all over their own dicks, or what?

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    • Uh, what? I could be all wrong about this, but I’d understood that the surgically created dead-end passageway created was a separate structure from the rectum, just as the vagina is. I presume the penile surfaces are then laid along the inside of the passageway. None of that involves the rectum.

      But I don’t know much about the surgery, so correct me if I’m wrong.


      • The guy who is “tucking” still has his penis. Tucking means putting the penis backwards between the legs to hide it from view. I have no idea if it would be long enough to reach the anus, but that could be an issue while trying to take a shit…

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  9. “You know, I never prance around naked to celebrate the joy of having another day with my vagina. That sounds like something an autogynephile would do.”

    This made me burst out laughing. This whole article is priceless.

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  10. Leave people like this alone, Its not their fault its how they were born feeling and let them live their life how they want to be, me personally I wish I was born a man but I cant do anything about it, well I could but its not for me, but I do understand how this man feels lost in his own skin. I think you are all quite judgemental.


    • Almost every woman wishes she was born a man at some point in her life. That’s because of male privilege and patriarchy. I would like to have all those privileges, too.
      Not the same thing as gleefully enjoying all the male privilege (how many transmen have their eggs frozen before starting on testosterone? I would be surprised if that was common – women wouldn’t fall all over themselves to get pregnant with another woman’s baby) while claiming to be a woman.

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    • Judgmental? It is about trying to save impressionable young people— pursuing an impossible goal that fools no one anyway— from a lifetime as medical experimental subjects. These experiments are not harmless; they can claim lives, sometimes quite quickly. Even after a so-called successful “transition,” suicide rates in this confused population remain sky high. There is no improvement, because the sexed body was never the actual issue– the mind is the issue. Young people should be encouraged to love themselves as they are, and deal with the root of their dysphoria (their confused minds.)

      “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

      Jessica, I hope one day you will have the wisdom to know that you can not be male just because you imagine it preferable, and come to accept what you can not change. When you stop childishly wasting time on this, you can move forward in your life as an adult, and do something productive instead of destructive. Wishing you all the best!

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    • I, too, have wished I could have been born a man. I wished I had a body that didn’t label me as a suitable target for harassment, assault, and even rape. I wished my body could be judged for its ability, strength, and intelligence, rather than conformity to ideals of beauty. I wished it could be taller, slimmer. I wished my strong facial features and broad shoulders would make me a handsome man instead of a masculine woman.

      I also wished I could live in my favorite novels, that I could have servants to take care of inconveniences like doing the dishes, sweeping the floors, and of course the laundry.

      If wishes were horses, beggars would ride, as my granddaddy would say. My wishes don’t change the material realities of my life. No matter how much I wish to be well off enough to afford a maid, it isn’t happening. No matter how strongly my brother identifies as a white man, cans still don’t stop when he hails them, just as men have never stopped harassing me. Do I think this guy should be free to wear dresses and makeup and do bad Madonna impressions? Hey, knock yourself out, dude. But stop claiming that it has anything to do with womanhood.

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      • No this is where I disagree with you all. Anyone can be what they want to be. I used to be what many people call a 3rd wave feminist. Personally I cannot call myself a feminist anymore as I feel the movement it once stood for is now extinct. I prefer just saying I am a gender equalitist. Personally after seeing the abuse many of my male friends (albiet I have also seen mayny female friends be abused by males too) from females. Ranging from simple putting down to assault. I have seen some of my best male friends who 2 of them have to be nicer then any woman ive ever met. 1 lost all parent custody to the kids through a lie which I know she fabricated and I know it was fabricated as I was there when she said it. And the other guy friend is a man who wants so bad to be a woman. He isnt going to get surgury but if he wanted to and it made him happy I would support him 100% I know this view of mine is probably unpopular here but after years of wanting to be a man and observing how the genders treat eachother… I came to the conclusion that both genders are very very flawed. We both how our privileges and disprivledges. I have to disagree with my former feminist friends that men have “privilege” over us woman when actually in 2016 I believe we have more rights then men. Just off my own observations. Still I would like to be born a man but your right I cant change that. However targeting people who cant change how they feel about there bodies is not right and I support anyone wanting to do this.


  11. believe it or not, hating ftm trans WOMEN is misogynistic. I enjoy the aesthetic this woman wishes to pursue, you can be glamorous and hairless and still be a proud woman. sorry you aren’t happy with the way you look, hating on a beautiful woman such as she. learn to grow a heart and accept EVERYONE in the queer community.

    I find it highly unfair you can be butch, masculine, etc and that’s alright but if a “man” wishes to be feminine or A FEMALE it’s autogynewhateverthefuck.

    absolutely disgusting and abhorrent behaviour from a “feminist”.

    I literally can’t get over how disgusting this article is regardless of how old it is, just completely repulsive. glad to know the younger generation of feminists is a little more accepting, assuming “feminists” of your age group are the only ones who have this mindset.

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  12. Also has craptastic reading comprehension. We’ve said over and over that if this asshole wants to do bad Madonna impressions, he should knock himself out but he’ll still be a man.

    And I’ve got a shaved head and wear a uniform of tee shirt, flannel, and work pants with doc martins. Still female. I also own a headband with attached witch hat. Amazingly, I still can’t fly on a broomstick. Who’d have guessed?!🙄

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  13. Hmmm, at least THIS dude can somewhat pass with dim lighting, good makeup (thick) and pass from the 4th row to Stevie Wonder. Most Males to females look like Ernest Borgnine. I give this young man a “4” for trying. Too bad he has butchered his body forever. Very good to hear he saves his money for therapy, he is going to need it.

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  14. I realize that this is an old post.

    But I can’t help myself.

    I looked at the original article and oh my gawd. People are telling that guy that maybe he will be able to carry a baby in his abdomen. And that his wound can turn into a (realer, almost totes really real) real vagina.

    That’s some mega stupid. But it did make me laugh.

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      • Well, I noticed that you called the wound a “fuckhole”.

        I called it that once, too, because that’s the only reason that males do it. They aren’t installing a vagina to have babies or a menstrual cycle. They create a wound solely so some random guy will have a hole to fuck (which is some kind of sick dedication to male pleasing that I can’t begin to understand).

        And I had a handmaiden yell at me in the form of the longest post ever, about how me calling a fuckhole, a fuckhole, was transmisogyny, and that my words were running amuck, murdering transpeople. Presumably, the ones with the fuckholes.

        It’s just so odd. Reading your most current post about lighted vaginas, and then reading this one. I have a vagina. I was born with it. And I never think about it.

        Males all think of our vagina as magical, mysterious, oh so special. They have different ways of thinking it, but they all do it. And I get the impression that they think of it as flattering. But it’s really just making us other and stripping us of our humanity.

        Sorry for the long post, purplesage. Chatty today, I guess.

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  15. Just reading this, but how is “fuckhole” any better than “mutilation”?

    1. My impression is that she’s contrasting her toxic attitudes before surgery to improved attitudes after.

    4. … and to the relief of not having to tuck. Of course, many trans women can get by without tucking, and some can’t tuck, but some can’t get by without tucking.

    I think a more trans-inclusive society, or a less gendered one would make it easier to get by without tucking or surgery.


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